It is an absolute desire for humans to be happy. Even Adam and Eve lost the genuine paradise due to the extreme desire of what can truly give them their earthly bliss. We wake up every single day yearning to find that happiness that each of us has dreamed of or others are living on. Question is – what is happiness? What does it take to be happy? Can we really be happy?
Werner Erhard once said “Happiness is a function of accepting what is.” It is qualitative, not quantitative. Each of one of us has his own mantra of what can make us happy. A professional success can bring absolute joy to some, while political power can make others happy. Long lasting marriages may mean an ultimate joy to many, while traveling and working alone give comfort to free spirited individuals.
I remember once when I had dinner with a few colleagues and we were sharing on what our utmost desires at that moment. One said that she had to finish her doctorate degree. That was her earnest dream and that would be the only way she could be truly happy. Another one said, “If my boyfriend will only propose, then I will be worry free.” Too many gave answers and no one ever had the same idea of what truly could make us happy. That conversation dawned on me as sometimes we judge people without objectivity of what the concept is supposed to be.
Truth be told, some of us just want to have a big house. A few want excellent health and amazing relationship. Others want to have the latest model of a phone or vehicle while others, just want to binge watch K-Dramas for a day, (that’s me on some days 😂) and others even simply want to shop at the expense of their credit cards.
At the end of the day, we all have our own idea of HAPPINESS and you should never let anyone take it from you. No one should judge what makes you or me happy. No one should tell us what can make us complete or achieve that power of bliss and contentment as no one knows what is best for you EXCEPT YOURSELF.
Bottom line is, do what makes your heart rejoice. Do not wait for anyone to bring your happiness to you. On the contrary, never be the judge or the spoilsport for others. We never have the right to compare ourselves nor feel superior or inferior towards others’ success or accomplishments. Everyone is entitled to it.
So the next time someone asks you ” Are you Happy?” Respond simply by “Why, did I take yours away?” 😍😍😍
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